A popular credit card ad says “There are some things money can’t buy, for others there is MXXXXXCard.” Money isn’t everything, but without it, we can’t survive. We need money for food, shelter, basic services, and security.
Money Through Life’s Stages
As students, we need money for education. My friend worked two jobs while studying to avoid debt. It’s not just about tuition – it’s about learning without constant money worries.
When working, we need money for basic needs. That first apartment might be small with bad plumbing, but it’s yours. Early career years quickly teach us about balancing income and expenses.
With a family, we need money for comfort and security. A friend once told me, “Having a child didn’t just change my heart – it changed my savings account too.” Family life increases both love and expenses.
When sick, we need money for healthcare. My uncle’s health scare created two problems – his illness and the medical bills. Good health may be priceless, but healthcare isn’t free.
In retirement, we need money to maintain our lifestyle. My grandmother taught school for 40 years. Now in her 80s, her quality of life reflects her careful saving. Her freedom today came from decades of planning.
After death, we need money for final arrangements. Even our goodbye requires money. Funeral costs can be high and come at an already difficult time for families.
Money: A Tool, Not a Goal
Money touches every stage of life. Our world runs on money, and that won’t change anytime soon.
It’s strange – we spend 40+ hours weekly earning money but feel awkward talking about it. Many consider discussing salary with friends taboo. We have a complicated relationship with something that’s just a tool.
That’s the key – money is a tool, not a goal. Like a hammer isn’t good or bad by itself, money simply amplifies our existing values. I’ve seen wealth bring joy through giving and cause misery through greed – often in the same person.
Using Money Wisely
Use money as a tool for happiness. Not by buying luxury items but by making choices that bring joy to you and others.
This isn’t just nice talk – it’s practical advice. I once saved for months to buy an expensive watch. Two weeks later, I hardly noticed it. But a weekend trip with friends – costing about the same – still makes me smile years later when we talk about it.
Money matters, but it’s JUST money. Work hard to earn it, but don’t lose sleep over it. Aim for a balanced life where you can stop and enjoy simple pleasures.
Finding Balance
There’s a sweet spot with money – having enough to cover needs without becoming obsessed with getting more. A friend in finance told me about millionaire clients who stress more about money than middle-class people. The difference isn’t the amount – it’s their relationship with it.
This balance looks different for everyone:
- Some want six months of savings while focusing on experiences
- Others build wealth but also give generously
- Many just want to stop living paycheck-to-paycheck
The common thread is making conscious choices about earning, spending, saving, and giving rather than blindly following what others do.
Money as a Means, Not an End
Wealthsamurai is about living fully, not chasing money constantly. Focus on quality of life, not quantity of stuff.
My 86-year-old neighbor made this clear. When asked what he’d do differently in life, he didn’t mention career or investments. He said, “I’d use my money to spend more time with people I loved while they were still here.”
His words hit home. Money can buy many things but not time once it’s gone. The truly rich person isn’t the one with the most money – it’s the one who uses what they have to live according to their values.
Your Money Philosophy
Develop your own approach to money based on these simple ideas:
- Cover basics first: Take care of needs before wants
- Value your time: Sometimes spend money to save time
- Practice gratitude: Appreciate what you have now
- Give back: Help others as part of your money plan
- Seek balance: Use money to improve life without making money your whole life
Your approach should match your values. The important thing is having clear principles to guide your decisions.
What Really Counts
In the end, bank statements won’t matter most. What will count are memories created, people helped, and differences made. Money is essential, but it’s the vehicle, not the destination.
Use it wisely. Respect its power. But remember that in a well-lived life, love, purpose, and connection are worth more than any amount of money.